Consider
what CS Lewis wrote about this.
"As long as we are thinking that way, one or
other of two results is likely to follow. Either we give up trying to be good,
or else we become very unhappy indeed. For, make no mistake: if you are really
going to try to meet all the demands made on the natural self, it will not have
enough left over to live on. The more you obey your conscience, the more your
conscience will demand of you. And your natural self, which is thus being
starved and hampered and worried at every turn, will get angrier and angrier.
In the end, you will either give up trying to be good, or else become one of
those people who, as they say, ‘live for others’ but always in a discontented,
grumbling way – always wondering why the others do not notice it more and always
making a martyr of yourself. And once you have become that you will be a far
greater pest to anyone who has to live with you than you would have been if you
had remained frankly selfish."
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