The way of a fool is right in his own
eyes; but he that hearkens unto counsel is wise. Proverbs 12:15
No man
has any right to offer advice who has not first heard God speak. No man has any
right to counsel others who is not ready to hear and follow the counsel of the
Lord!
This rule
of listening only to those who have first listened to God will save us from
many a snare, for in any group of ten persons at least nine are sure to believe
that they are qualified to offer advice to others.
It seems
that in no other field of human interest are people as ready to offer advice as
in the field of religion and morals. Yet it is precisely in this field that the
average person is least qualified to speak wisely and is capable of the most
harm when he does speak.
For this
reason, we should select our counselors carefully, and selection inevitably
carries with it the idea of rejection.
David
warns against the counsel of the ungodly and Bible history gives examples of
men who made a failure of their lives because they took wrong advice.
It is
especially important that young people learn whose counsel to trust. Having
been in the world for such a short time they have not had much experience and
must look to others for advice. Those who boast the loudest of their
independence, for example, have picked up from someone the idea that
independence is a virtue, and their very eagerness to be individualistic is the
result of the influence of others. They are what they are because of the
counsel they have followed.